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I have a theory about why we keep coming back to romantic fantasy. It is not the dragons, though the dragons help. It is not the magic systems, though a well-built magic system is its own kind of pleasure. It is this: romantic fantasy is the only genre that insists, loudly and without apology, that love is as serious as war.
Not a distraction from the real story. Not a reward for surviving the plot. The point.
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