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The mating bond is the most debated trope in romantasy, and the debate is almost always about the wrong thing. Critics say it removes agency — the characters are fated, so the love is not a choice. Defenders say it is fantasy wish-fulfilment and should not be held to realist standards. Both positions miss what the best mating bond stories are actually doing.
What the Bond Actually Does
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